Monday, October 15, 2012

falling, feeling, and failing?

Falling in love once does not make you incapable of falling in love twice. Falling in love once does not make your heart close for someone else. Falling in love once does not mean he’s the one. Falling in love once does not mean “this is it”. Falling in love once does not mean you fail if he breaks your heart. Falling in love once does not mean your heart is forever taken. Falling in love once does not mean you’ve to stay the same forever. Falling in love once does not mean you can’t get a getaway out of the mess love might cause. Falling in love once merely means falling in love once.

Falling in love does not mean you have to hate any possible competitions. Falling in love with your co-worker does not mean you have to be jealous if your boss flirts with her. Falling in love with a classmate in your accounting class does not mean you have to stalk her on Facebook. Falling in love with somebody in Kuala Lumpur does not mean you have to Skype with him every day if you live in Boston. Falling in love with a bartender does not mean you have to go to his bar every night. Falling in love with a Megan Fox wannabe does not mean you have to paste Megan Fox posters all over your bedroom's wall. Falling in love merely means falling in love.

Falling in love with somebody does not mean you have to sleep with him before you break up with him. Falling in love does not mean you must express your love by sharing some intimate moments with him, kissing him at the mouth, or having some sexual times with him. Falling in love with a James Franco look-alike does not mean you’re guaranteed a phone sex call from him. Falling in love does not mean you have to face some sexual encounters with him. Falling in love does not mean he has to reciprocate before you consider it love. Falling in love merely means falling in love.

Falling in love with him does not mean you have to be his slut of the night. Falling in love does not make you his slave of the day either. Falling in love would not make you lose your sense of individuality. Falling in love with him does not mean you are all his. Falling in love does not mean you have to let him into your apartment. Falling in love does not mean she has to have a duplicate key of your car or your computer's password. Falling in love does not mean you have to choose him over you. Falling in love does not mean you have to give up your mom for your girlfriend. Falling in love does not make you fail to preserve yourself. Falling in love does not make you the one falling. Falling in love is merely falling in love. 

Falling in love does not make your wealth be hers too. Falling in love does not make you have to buy her a Stella McCartney dress or a Vera Wang wedding gown. Falling in love does not mean you have to go to a Manchester United game with him. Falling in love with her does not mean she is the one. Falling in love does not make your sexuality change. Falling in love does not bring any immediate fortunes. Falling in love does not mean you have to spend every single minute with her. Falling in love does not mean you would die if you live without him. Falling in love does make changes in your life but falling in love is still only falling in love, so you should not change too much.

Falling in love does not make you forget about your job. Falling in love does not mean you have to go to work late. Falling in love does not make your salary increase. Falling in love does not mean you have to buy her a pair of Manolo Blahnik shoes. Falling in love does not mean you have to take a good care of him, shower with him, brush his teeth, shave his moustache or perhaps cohabitate with him. Falling in love does not mean he’s your recently discovered boy toy. Falling in love, frankly, merely means falling in love.

Falling in love does not mean you have to change your beliefs to please him. Falling in love with a billionaire does not make you any better than those who fall in love with some beggars. Falling in love with a gay guy does not mean you are hopeless. Falling in love with a straight boy does not make you hapless. Falling in love with a money maker does not mean you love his money. Falling in love with an investor does not mean he’s a good financial investment. Falling in love with a student does not mean you have to study him all day long.

Falling in love with him does not mean you ought to love the fact that he drinks beer every night. Falling in love with her does not mean you admire the way she seduces different boys every night. Falling in love with him does not make you listen to every clamant song by Slash. Falling in love with her does not mean you have to dress up like Mr.Big in Sex and the City 2. Falling in love with him does not mean you fall in love with his interests. Falling in love with him does not make you less pious. Falling in love with him does not necessarily make you less you and more him. Falling in love means falling in love. You’re just falling in love. You just fall, when love calls.

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